Protecting Children in Divorce

By Dan Blair, a marriage counselor and family counselor.

You can make a difference when it comes to insulating your children from the harmful effects of unavoidable divorce.  Children of divorce are most affected by ongoing conflict, absent parents, and financial shifts in lifestyle.  Moreover, how the child responds to the divorce is modeled by how each parent deals with it.  Generally, if the parents are coping well, the children are coping well. Continue reading Protecting Children in Divorce

Divorce Mediation FAQ About Finances

By Dan Blair, a marriage counselor and family counselor.

Here are some questions that need to be answered in the best financial interest of the family:

1. Have I consulted with an attorney and/or a tax accountant specializing in divorce so I understand my best options when filing for taxes?
2. Who will claim the children for dependent tax exemptions? Continue reading Divorce Mediation FAQ About Finances

Divorce Mediation FAQ About the Children

By Dan Blair, a marriage counselor and family counselor.

Here are some questions that will have to be answered not by the mediator, but by the parents in the best interest of their children:

1. What is in the best interest of the child when determining custody?

2. Will child care be needed? Continue reading Divorce Mediation FAQ About the Children